June 15, 2009

Rocky road to recovery


Our Rocky is finally on the mend after MONTHS of infection-infested illness. Where can you find a competent doc? Not Chico, CA apparently. Fed up with Dr.******* , the worst pediatrician ever (more details on that to come), and after 4 hours on the phone trying to find a new one, we journeyed all the way to Utah, where in two days and one visit to an ear, nose and throat specialist revealed that I am (direct quote from Dr. Bennion) "not a crazy mom." What a relief. Apparently there was a reason Rocky was suffering so. His tonsils were ginormous and infected, almost blocking his airway, his adenoids were ridiculously enflamed and his left ear has been filled with infectious junk for so long that a hearing test resulted in no tympanic vibration whatsoever. So for Jack's 1st birthday, June 11, we commemorated the occasion by returning to a hospital for surgery and shipping Jack down to SLC to spend the day with his step-grandpa Bill. Rocky was a trooper, sporting his new Transformer shoes from Grandma C, he marched into the hospital in a robotic fashion announcing to all that he was to be called "Prime," then requesting the Transformer mask that would slip him into blissful sedation and transform him into a healthy boy. We forgot to mention the recovery to him though and it has been rough. Grandma K was there for moral support and then took the reigns on his care and medication administration as five consecutive sleepless nights had rendered me useless. In 20 minutes, Dr. Bennion expertly removed Rocky's tonsils, adenoids and put tubes in both ears. Now that he no longer needs Loritab, the semi-psychotic episodes have ceased and we are seeing a remarkable difference in his confidence and activity level. For the first time ever, he is walking stairs by himself and jumping on the trampoline. Today, in the middle of a conversation with him, he suddenly announced, "Hey, I can hear!" It brought tears to my eyes and much anger towards our inept pediatrician, who is really going to get it from me when I get home. Rich better hold me back! Rich is home, missing us almost as much as we miss him. Today Jack was wandering around Grandma's house yelling, "Da da!" I asked Rocky if he missed Dad and he said, "Of course I do! I love my daddy!" Hang in there Rich. We will be here monitoring Rocky's recovery and returning to the only doc we trust right now for a follow-up appt. and will return home in a few weeks. That's enough for today. I'll share the T****** tales at a later time, maybe while I'm compiling the law suit.

11 comments:

Julie W said...

What in the world Jodi!!! I am so sorry. Doctors are so hard.

We will be in Logan on Saturday, maybe we can stop by and say hello! Call me.

Justin and Kenzee said...

I'm glad the worst is behind you. Sounds like Rocky can truly be his best superhero self now. Happy birthday to Jack (have you celebrated yet?) and hopefully you'll start getting well rested and enjoy your time in Utah.

emily ballard said...

So sad. Bad doctors make me angry.

We just did tonsils and adenoids at our house a couple weeks ago and had the same issue. I prepped her for everything but the recovery.

Are you really in Utah for a couple of weeks? Let me know if you're up for a trip to Ogden sometime.

Melissa said...

grrr, I hate inept people! Glad Rocky is better and thank goodness you have a dr. you can trust, too bad he's so far away :( Keep strong, you're an amazing mom!!!

Gina said...

Oh Jodi, what a horrible story, but what a relief that it is behind you. I thought all the bad doctors live in Ireland. Guess not. Diego had tubes done last year, and they saved us (forget about him). He has only had one ear infection the entire ensuing year, where the previous was one long infection. I hope Rocky has the same results!

Steve said...

Jodi/Rich - I hope you're not kidding about the lawsuit. That sounds pretty negligent. How hard is it to check tonsils? Anyways, you may want to take it easy with naming names. If lawyers get brought in, he may try and counter with a slander claim. I'm pretending to know what I'm talking about... Just a word of caution though. You never know...

The Prigmore Family said...

This is THE SADDEST ever. Little guys in hospital gowns...worst idea ever God. Seriously. Poor little Rocky. And his poor momma!! Sending your kid into surgery is not an experience I'd wish on any mother. And doing it all sans Rich. Whew. Hopefully the worst is behind you and rocky is on the mend.
WORST DOCTOR EVER! seriously you should put up signs in his office lobby warning moms to stay away. What an idiot.

Jon and Diana said...

That is the most ridiculous story ever. You give that Dr a piece of your mind!!!

Jodi said...

THIS IS RICH,

I edited the the name out just in case of anything, for now. That pic of Davy in the chair post-op was the most heart wrenching moment these past few days. Good luck and hurry home. Love you.

Kari Peters said...

I am mad as H-E-Double-hockey sticks about this whole thing. I can't believe that because of a doctor's gross negligence that A) my sweet little nephew had to suffer so long, and B) my awesome sissy-in-law had to endure being talked down to and treated like she was crazy.

While I am not particularly litigious in nature (generally it just costs to much to warrant the expense ;) this is a perfect example of why doctors are required to pay for malpractice insurance. He did not do his job, plain and simple, (if you want to sound fancy you could say he breached his duty of care) and because of this you suffered damages.

Lawyers really get razzed, and most of the time for good reason :) but it is pretty cool to remember that they are there to protect injustices, that is their whole job. As far is this situation goes, bringing a claim against the doctor is completely warranted if not "called for" to entice that doctor to either retire (as it sounds like he should) or take better care of his patients.

I totally agree with Steve regarding being careful about slander (or in this case libel (because it is written)) however, "truth" is a complete defense to any defamation claim. So I'm not too worried.

Anyway, sorry for the rant but I just want you to know that I've got your back for whatever you need and I love you all to pieces ;)

xoxoxo Aunt Kari

Molly said...

Man! What a whirlwind. That has to be SO frustrating. Glad that it is all finally working out. Sorry I missed you the other day.