February 13, 2009

Tempting Fate



Friday the 13th. For most, this is a day of superstition, irrational fear and apprehension. Ironically, these are the feelings that the idea of marriage conjured within me until Friday the 13th, 2004. That is the day my fears were swept up into blissful happiness as Rich and I consummated our marriage in the Salt Lake Temple, the place where we had met. Surrounded by loved ones, we wept tears of joy and floated on clouds in the frigid winter air we were oblivious of. That is the day our journey began. Since 13 was our number and we chose to avoid the clique of Valentine's Day, by mere hours, we formed our union on this ominous day. Looking back, perhaps we had tempted fate. Externally, our challenges have been numerous, comically so, yet our feelings for each other have remained intact and have only solidified as we have faced life's blows together. Marriage has become the beacon of light in a world of darkness, the refuge from the storm, the force that drives us forward despite the odds stacked against us at times. In five years, we have moved 7 times. Rich has held 6 different jobs and we struggled through 2 extremely difficult pregnancies, to name a few challenges. Despite this, we laugh constantly and enjoy more marital joy than I imagined possible. Surrounded by three vibrantly spirited boys, there is never a dull moment in the Sorenson household. I wouldn't have it any other way. Rich, I love with all my heart and soul. You're my best friend and companion, my media naranja, my soul mate. Happy anniversary Richard G. Let's continue tempting fate another five. Bring it on!

8 comments:

Richard G. said...

I love you babe! You described it perfectly except the part where you tore up the "mic" singing Material Girl and got the 50 other people all riled up, energized and dancing! These 5 years have been great because of you and am sure the next will be even better!

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The Prigmore Family said...

HAPPY ANNI you two! I am so glad you found each other. I'm impressed all the time with how you handle the situations life throws at you and the unfaltering love that you have for one another. Way to go guys. Here's to another five years.

PS I am willing to pay for a video recoding of said "material girl" performance Rich. You know where to reach me.

Melissa said...

Happy anniversary to you both! You two are so great separately and even better together.

And Rich, thanks for taking care of my Jodi...she's the best and I'm glad you know it :)

IJ y JD's Mami said...

FELICIDADEZ!!!!!
WE MISS YOU .. R U READY TO COME BACK TO US...IM SO GLAD I FOUND YOUR BLOG IM GOING TO PUT IT ON MY LIST...

Justin and Kenzee said...

Happy Anniversary! I'm so glad you had a great trip together. It was fun to read about your adventure.

Lifeisapitch said...

hey, sorry you missed the Valentines Party. Your Home Teacher should have told you about it.

Jodi said...

In case there was any confusion (I'm speaking to the same people who think Mormons have horns), the word "consummate" means to finish, complete, finalize such as in a business transaction. No, we did not have sex in the Salt Lake Temple.